Just as many traditional wedding trends have fallen to the wayside, we see that various classic bachelorette and bridal shower themes are changing. Vogue breaks down what’s in and what’s out with an emphasis on more sustainable weddings, intimate ceremonies and lavish parties in 2023.

Cake Decorating Party

Photos by Claire Lawlor

The beauty in this sort of group activity is that everyone goes home with a sweet treat, learns a new skill, and is able to spend quality time together. A cake party can be tailored to fit the bride’s taste and be as simple or as extravagant as desired. I recommend finding a local baker who offers classes for the ease of throwing a large party. If you’re up for the challenge though, I’ll be sharing my tips and tricks for pulling off a cake party in the coming weeks.

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Garden Party Picnic

Photos by Paige Overturf

Maybe a leisurely picnic with her besties is more the bride’s tempo. A simple picnic can transform into something unique with a little extra attention to detail. I recommend doing a little research in your area to find an oasis to hold this sort of a gathering. Botanical gardens, lakes, and hidden estates are great options. Next, I’d plan a menu featuring easy to eat foods,  A floral cocktail or mocktail and serve with floral ice spheres or dainty tea cups. Throw pillows, soft blankets, a small table, and fresh florals are welcomed accessories. Yard games such as cornhole are also fun elements to add to the day.

Makeup Class ~ Glam and Cham

Alexis Nicholas, Makeup Artist in Virginia Beach. Middle photo by Sarah Vanderford Photography

Another alternative bridal shower idea is taking a group makeup class and going out for dinner and drinks afterwards! This is a great group activity that leaves each girl feeling beautiful and more competent at her makeup application. In the makeup industry, there’s always something new to learn which makes this a relevant activity no matter how proficient one might be. If you’re in Hampton Roads, Alexis Nicholas is the girl for you to book with! She is an excellent teacher, a delight to be around, and has a stellar resume! She’s been doing makeup for almost a decade and travels around the country specializing in the bridal industry. You will love your time with her, I promise! Around here she’s known as The Makeup Queen and for good reason!

Beach Picnic

Photos: Bottom left and middle by Jess Erin Photos, Top and bottom right by AGM Photo. Jewelry by Hangin' Around VB

In beach towns, beach picnics are a trend that doesn’t seem to be going anywhere anytime soon. If you’re located near the ocean or a large lake, chances are there’s a company that specializes in luxury picnics. They’ll set up and tear down leaving it a seamless and no-fuss sort of affair! Moonfly Events, in Hampton Roads, is a fantastic company that will leave you speechless with their attention to detail and professionalism. You’ll want to put some thought into adding a charcuterie board (homemade or preordered), a boutique style cake, and some bubbly to serve. Ordering takeout from a local restaurant and having it delivered is also an option in some areas. Lastly, don’t forget to bring a portable speaker and favorite playlist!